I can't remember how long ago it was, but part of an Easter homily has really stuck with me over the years. The priest remarked that while we've all experienced Easter before, each year is different because each year we are different. Easter as a child is different from Easter as an adult, or a parent, or a grandparent. This of course applies to other holidays as well, and it's particularly true of a secular one like Memorial Day.
It has shifted a great deal in my lifetime, not just in terms of how I approach it, but how society approaches it as well.
As a child, it was about picnics, maybe a family reunion, trips to the beach and so forth. As a young adult increasingly involved in politics, it meant parades and speeches (I became quite good at speechwriting).
The coming of war changed it still further, and celebrations became more strident, no doubt a result of the fresh graves arriving in the veterans' cemeteries.
As the wars faded in importance (and casualties lost their political potency and became less newsworthy), ambitious and amoral politicians began trying to tear open the origins of the holiday, seeking to overthrow the post-Civil War reconciliation for fun and profit.
Most recently, the wars have ended in American strategic defeat, and the same sacrifices that were lauded years ago for spreading freedom and democracy are seen as wasteful and useless.
In retrospect, one can't help but wonder how much of the Peace Movement was ever sincere. I knew people in it, and while I thought them misguided, I felt that they honestly abhorred violence. Yet many of them now demand that Ukraine and Russia fight to the death over obscure bits of geography most people have never heard of. I've yet to see any meaningful peace marches for that. Oh, there are big demonstrations against Israel, but demanding a nation be completely obliterated isn't what I would call a "peaceful solution."
This Memorial Day therefore finds us in a strange place. The day is the same, but we have changed greatly.
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